Kurt wrote:Interesting. I think revenge requires an eye for an eye, etc. Justice might better require the best available redress.
My feeling exactly, Kurt. No doubt, when one is guilty of some offense against another person, one ought to try and make some redress, and I think it not unwise that this be to a degree coerced by the state. However, I think that lines have to be drawn. It cannot be right to impoverish an entire family -- kids and all -- for the crimes of one parent. (That was, you will see, not very well thought out. I introduce it merely as a general idea for consideration, not a statement of conviction.)
But forgiveness, the way that I hold the concept, lies outside of redress. I had a friend once (ages and ages ago) who through utter carelessness started a fire in my apartment. He had nothing to offer, as he was essentially unemployable, so he was never going to pay me back. I took him to court for no other reason than to try and avoid some of the nastier insurance ramifications (had it been deemed my "fault" completely). However, though it cost a lot which I never recovered, my forgiveness was complete. In fact, we remained friends for many years, the incident forgotten in speech, until his death.
